“Unfortunately, most of the time, the first thing a person does when suddenly confronted with adversity is decide he or she has to make sweeping changes.”
~ Success is a Choice by Rick Pitino
I’ve reacted this way before. I imagine you have too. It seems like an almost natural reaction, in fact.
But it really is an overreaction.
Adversity is a necessary part of life. It’s not an indicator that you need to make massive changes.
Some times you don’t need to make any changes – just be patient. Or often 1 or 2 right changes can make a huge difference.
For example, a few years ago I started working on my master’s degree. A big change occurred at my job, significantly increasing the demands placed upon me. To meet all the deadlines with work & school, I cut out all exercise & was only sleeping a few hours a night. I was massively stressed. I tried to cope with the stress by applying lots of junk food and alcohol. I gained a ton of weight & that stressed me out even more. Everything in my life seemed to be in a downward spiral.
I knew something had to change.
I made the tough decision to drop out of the master’s program. I didn’t feel good about it at the time, but see now it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. My stress level dropped right away, I was exercising again, I ate better – & lost most of the weight I’d gained.
That one decision to drop out, helped me right away & also became a catalyst with many of the other positive life changes I’ve made since.
Adversity gives you an opportunity to learn & to grow. How have you taken advantage of the opportunities that adversity has given you?